Reasons

Lets start off by this little excert .... source unknown for the time being , though i know many of you will be able to pinpoint the donor once you have been through it

"I am everything you want
I am everything you need
I am everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
I say all the right things
At exactly the right time
But I mean nothing to you
and I don't know why "

The idea is, we always expect things to happen for a reason. Indeed , knowing or unknowingly we look about for reasons for everything happening to us. But unfortunately sometimes something goes terribly wrong, and you cannot get through to the most logical cause for why it went wrong. Then what do you do ? What is your reponse to such a situations?
An open forum to all ... ideas, personal experiences.... anything .
For me , i tried to analyze such a situation cause more often than not something always goes wrong for me without a reason. Now instinctively thats a kind of thing i cannot accept, and immediatly i go off for a damage control analysis .. more or less like hunting down any possible reason. If i do not get one readily, more often than not i keep myself satisfied with a reason i make to suit my own purposes.
a scapegoat i am not, but my point is does everything has to be causal ?

Reference : "Everything you want " by Vertical horizon ...... a very good song to listen to after a couple of mugs !!!